annanese - Level 1
Wedding Date: 01/16/2010
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How much is reasonable to spend on a wedding gift?

or if you give money, how much money do you give?


Posted: 3068 days ago in Customs & Etiquette | California, San Francisco Bay Area

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honeyboo - Level 1
Wedding Date: 04/18/2009
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i think it depends on how much money you make and where they're having the ceremony/reception etc. I usually try to get a gift or give enough money to cover the costs of what it costs for fiance and i to be there. The least amount i would spend/give is 200 bucks. the better the friend the more I usually give,

Posted: 3068 days ago

minnie - Level 0
Wedding Date: 02/20/2010
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about 100 bucks if i go by myself and min 150-100 if i bring my fiance. I usually do the same as honeyboo. give them enough to cover the costs of having us as guests.

Posted: 3068 days ago

MsMystiqkal - Level 2
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i think its different for different cultures. for asian wedings i usually see people give 100 bucks pp (and usually they give money). for american weddings and american guests you usually see people buy things off registries and usually its bit cheaper 50-100 pp. I usually spend about 100pp no matter if i give a physical gift or cash though.

Posted: 3067 days ago

iheartpearls - Level 0
Wedding Date: 11/07/2009
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i think depending on how well you know the person, you should be spending a minimum of 50 bucks pp that you bring to the wedding. you know that its going to cost about that much for them to have you there.

Posted: 3067 days ago

nursiekins34 - Level 0
Wedding Date: 10/02/2010
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Generally, you estimate how much the bride and groom (or family) are spending per plate on the dinner (including bar if it's an open bar) and your gift should cover what you think that is.

Posted: 3063 days ago

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